Monday, January 16, 2017

GNI Board Member Offers Tips on Advertising GNI

ADVERTISING GNI
By: Nick (Board Member)
We all know how great The Gathering is, in fact, we all enjoy it so much that we have a hard time selling it to outsiders. Over the past ten years, I’ve tried every angle possible to bring more people to camp. In that time, I’ve brought a grand total of (drum roll please) one person. Admittedly there was a time that I felt that maybe bringing people to GNI wasn’t my forte, so I decreased my efforts for a year or two. I didn’t give up advertising GNI, I would still talk about naked camp and there seemed to be some slight interest, but no actual interest that resulted in front gate passes. After a while, I realized that my enthusiasm was getting in the way.

I’m sure everyone has experienced this before, a knock at the door to sell you something, someone stopping you on the street to get you sign something, or that one friend who is trying to push weight loss shakes on you like their selling drugs. We can almost feel their enthusiasm, and it can be a bit unsettling. We say, “no thank you,” before we even hear what they have to say and continue with whatever we were doing. After experiencing that more than a few times in my life, I realized I was probably doing something similar when talking about GNI.

The Gathering has been a life changing event for me. Not just my first year, but every year that I attend. For me, that’s what makes camp unique and it’s something that I want other people to experience. The problem is, most people don’t need that much enthusiasm up front when hearing about this great place/organization. There are probably many reasons for this, but the biggest one I think is that if I wasn’t so enthusiastic about this organization, then I wouldn’t go every year and I definitely wouldn’t be talking to a stranger about it. I had to figure out a way to advertise GNI and not evangelize people to GNI. After I realized this, I started to come up with ideas that would be appealing to people who didn’t identify with being a Naturist. When that idea turned into a successful group, I started to put other lessons I’ve learned over the years to try and create a better approach for GNI advertising.
  • Talk about GNI to people who have an actual interest in the lifestyle: While casting a wide net to advertise is always good, you don’t want to waste your time on someone who would rather be checking their Facebook than listen to you talk about some naked place. What I do is casually mention naked camp. From there, you can see if the person is interested or not because they’ll ask, “what’s that?” and then you only have a few minutes to actually talk about what it is.
  • Have your elevator speech ready: You’re going to want quick phrases that completely sum up what you’re trying to talk about. People’s attention span only lasts for a few minutes, sometimes seconds, so you don’t have a lot of time to sell camp. The best way to practice this is to talk about what you like about camp in one sentence. One that I use often is, “it’s like adult summer camp with booze and no clothes.” I have a few more that I use, but that one seems to sum it up enough to where I can expand on it if needed. The elevator speech should spark enough interest that the listener will give you more time to expand on the topic. At this point the listener will either change the topic or ask a million questions. It’s important to listen to the person’s body language, because to them we are basically telling them we want to see them naked. This means that if they change the topic, then drop it and move on to something else.
  • Start them out small: Surprisingly enough not everyone feels comfortable just going on vacation to hang out with hundreds of strangers. It’s really important to see it from their perspective, how did you feel when you decided to go to your first gathering? Did you go with a few friends? Did you just show up without knowing anyone? Did you go to a few smaller events in your area before you decided to go to camp? Try and draw on your own experience to try and make your audience more comfortable. The easiest thing to do, especially people who’ve never experienced social nudity before, is to bring them to a local event. If you live somewhere that doesn’t have that, then all it takes is four or five people to have a get together. The best way to prevent it from turning into a small sex party is limitations, an after work social that’s two to three hours max. This gives people the opportunity to try something new and have an escape option if it’s not for them.
  • Tell them what they get out of their investment: Of course camp is expensive, all-inclusive price, but still it’s expensive. It shouldn’t be a deterrent since we all know most people will drop three grand easy at Gay Days or on an Atlantis cruise.  The biggest reason why guys will say, “I don’t know, that’s a lot of money,” is because they don’t know what they’re getting. This investment doesn’t have to strictly be about money. I think the bigger investment when it comes to taking a vacation is the investment of one’s time. When people look at a new destination, they’re really asking themselves, “do I want to spend my time there?” yes they’re looking at cost and such, but amenities are a dime a dozen. Time is a precious thing and we don’t get a lot of it to indulge on ourselves. This is why it’s important to communicate what they will get in return when they invest their vacation time at GNI. To me, this is where the enthusiastic speech comes into play. At this point, guys want to hear why you go every year, why it’s so important to you, and why you want them to experience it too. The reason why I do this at this point and not at introductions is because at this point, I know they’re actually interested. GNI not only has resources to help communicate what guys get out of camp, but are always coming up with newer resources to emphasize this point even more.

Although using these tips will help you talk about The Gathering easier, they’re not fool proof. It’s really easy to talk about camp to a thousand people and get only one person who wants to go, but backs out last minute.  I wish there was a recipe that I could use that would bring more guys, but there isn’t. The most important thing to take away from this article is that GNI can’t be our best kept secret anymore. It’s up to all of us to talk about the gathering all year and not just in July. You may talk to a thousand semi interested people about camp, but I can promise you that those people will tell other people about some camp where a bunch of guys hang out naked. In the past, that loose description might not have been useful, but today that description is only a google search away from GNI. Whether you manage to bring someone or not, getting our name out there is the most important thing to do.

GNI Board Needs You

GNI Board Elections 

The GNI Board Needs You!

GNI thrives on the work of its volunteers, whether it is a couple of hours at The Gathering, hosting an evenings entertainment, or serving on a committee or the Board. All of these volunteer positions represent a commitment to the success of GNI and our annual events. One way of giving back is to serve as a GNI Board member. Board members are crucial to GNI's success. Besides their work related to our annual events, they are the glue that keeps GNI working from year to year. The GNI Board has five members with staggered, three-year terms. In 2017, three (3) Board positions will be up for election. Two positions are for three (3) years, and one position is for one (1) year.

If you have ever thought of joining the Board, now is the time! Don't assume that we already have enough candidates to fill the three spots. GNI benefits when there is a competitive election, so throw your name into the hat!

The qualifications of candidates for Board membership include:

1. Membership in good standing for at least one year.
2. Must have attended at least one (1) GNI Gathering or NakedFest event.
3. Must have shown active participation in advancing the vision and mission of GNI through volunteer and/or committee work to benefit the organization, active participation in GNI-sponsored events and/or other evidence of the promotion of gay naturism.

Board members serve a term of three (3) years. Responsibilities of Board members include:

1. A three-day, mid-winter meeting.
2. Membership and active participation in one or more committees.
3. Availability for Board meetings prior to and during The Gathering and/or NakedFest.
4. Tasks and responsibilities during and after The Gathering and/or NakedFest.
5. Monthly board conference calls.
6. Reliable e-mail service and Internet communications.

While there is a significant commitment of time and energy, there are many rewards in working with a dedicated group of individuals who have the health and welfare of GNI in their hearts and minds.

Do you have questions? Contact the Election Committee at elections.15@gaynaturists.org.

If you are interested in running, e-mail the following to the Elections Committee (elections.15@gaynaturists.org or gni@gaynaturists.org), by April 1, 2017:

1. A short biography indicating your reasons for running for the Board, and
2. A shirtless headshot (or indicate that your profile picture in the GNI member directory is sufficient).

Or mail to (postmarked by April 1):

GNI Elections
5175 W Ajo Hwy #A-14
Tucson AZ 85735-9723 / USA


Ballots will be sent out mid-April and will be due June 1, 2017. Our voting is done by e-ballot, so please check to make sure that your GNI profile and e-mail address are up-to-date, you've added GAYNATURISTS.ORG and gni@memberclicks-mail.net to your safe senders list, and your spam filters allow electronic communications from GNI.

Results of the election will be announced shortly after ballots are tabulated.

Sunday, December 18, 2016

GNI Purchases Massage Tables for The Gathering

With GNI’s commitment to continue to invest in quality programs we bring to our annual Gathering, we are thrilled to announce that GNI has purchased twelve (12) professional massage tables for use at The Gathering during our massage workshops. Massage is a very popular event and it’s time that we move away from the use of hard rental tables and provide our attendees with a much more comfortable, relaxing experience. We’re sure that this will please both the givers and receivers of massage.

In addition, every year we have a number of massage therapists that offer their private massage services to individual. For those therapists that would like to use one of our tables to give private massages, we will provide the table to them for a small rental fee. They will not have to worry about transporting their own table to The Gathering or making use of other furniture to give massages. Since these tables are primarily used for massage workshops, private massages with the use of our tables may not be offered during the scheduled activity but may be reserved for use before or after the group workshop. See Rick or one of his staff members during The Gathering to make arrangements for use of a table.

We’re sure this will be a great benefit at The Gathering and we invite you to join the massage workshops throughout the week.

Wednesday, December 14, 2016

Nude Live Theatre Night - South Florida, Jan 2017


Friday, January 27, 2017

The WildFyre Society in South Florida presents another fabulous, nude audience live theater event at multiple Carbonell Award-winning Island City Stage in Wilton Manors (a suburb of Fort Lauderdale). It includes a pre-performance reception. Audience nudity is mandatory.

The First Step – Diary of a Sex Addict is a blistering, dark comedy that graphically depicts the story of Joe, a gay sex addict, whose turbulent journey leads toward recovery. Written and directed by Tony-nominated Michael Leeds, The First Step is funny, poignant, and full of flights of fantasy, revealing a life rarely seen on the stage. The play contains male and female nudity, strong language, and sexual situations.

Limited availability. Admission is by advance ticket purchase. Maximum capacity is 68. Get more details and reserve seat(s) ASAP. If, upon attempting to order, you see a message that the event is sold out, click on Continue Shopping to be forwarded to a page containing waitlist instructions.

29th Annual Mid-Winter Naturist Festival, Feb 2017


Six days of fun, growth, and community in the nude

Thursday - Tuesday, February 16-21, 2017

Sunsport Gardens Family Naturist Resort 14125 North Rd, Loxahatchee Groves, FL (14 miles west of West Palm Beach)
Join other naturist men and women and their families from Florida and the rest of North America for the continent's first regional naturist gathering in 2017. Come for any or all of the days – it's up to you!


This nude gathering features more than 280 scheduled activities, including a broad array of seminars, workshops, sports, music and dance (including nightly drum circle around a huge bonfire*), and social activities. There are also several off-site events, which include canuding on the jungly Loxahatchee River and excursions to Haulover Beach in Miami and Blind Creek Beach in Fort Pierce, FL.

The Mid-Winter Naturist Festival is one of a series of Naturist Society-sanctioned nude events each year. Diversity is valued, and all are welcome. Pre-registration is encouraged for planning purposes, but not required. (It makes check-in quick and easy.) Proceeds of the Festival will benefit The Naturist Society and South Florida Free Beaches. Get details and/or register.

* Meanwhile, try Sunsport Gardens' nude drumming circle, every Friday from 9 p.m. to midnight. (The first Friday of every month is a little more elaborate.) Free entry starts at 5 p.m.; visitors must depart by 2 a.m. Includes use of amenities such as the café, showers, pool, spa, and sauna. You must present your government-issued photo ID for admission. Get directions here.


GNI Naked Getaway / Naturists at Vitambi Springs (N-VS)

GNI Naked Getaway™ / Naturists at Vitambi Springs (N-VS)



N-VS nude weekends for men are set for early 2017 at Vitambi Springs Florida Wilderness Resort & Camp in Clewiston, FL. GNI is a promotional sponsor of N-VS weekends as part of its Naked Getaway™ series. The next one, themed as "Jungle," takes place Friday-Sunday, January 6-8, 2017.

Two-thirds of Vitambi Springs’ 269-acre (109-hectare) property are always clothing-optional, but N-VS (plus naked yoga and bare bear) weekends have an extended nudity policy covering the entire property (except for Big Oak Lodge, the clubhouse, where food and beverage service preclude full nudity, due to county regulations).

Vitambi Springs is located about 90 minutes’ drive northwest of Fort Lauderdale. It is approximately two hours’ drive from Miami and about the same from many locations along Florida’s southwest coast.

On N-VS weekends, current GNI members (with proof of membership) are eligible for a 3-4-2 special (click and scroll down). Book for two nights and get a third night free at the same level of accommodation.

Below are the currently scheduled nude weekends for men at Vitambi Springs in early 2017.

·         N-VS: Jungle, January 6-8, 2017
·         N-VS: Carnival, February 24-26, 2017
·         N-VS: Breeze, April 14-16, 2017(includes naked Easter egg hunt)

Find out more on the Vitambi Springs web site or call 1 (863) 983-8488 for questions and reservations.

Born Perfect, a Project by Mr. GNI Leather and NCLR

By Ralph B., Mr. GNI Leather 2016


It's been a wild and exciting few months since The Gathering. It's been a thrill to represent GNI as Mr.GNI Leather 2016. I was presented on the main stage at the Folsom Street Fair, co-hosted the LeatherWerks/GNI Naked party in Fort Lauderdale, attended Palm Springs Leather Pride, and the Mr. Long Beach Leather, Mr. Precinct Leather, Mr. Regiment Leather, Mr/Ms Sanctuary Leather Competitions. 2017 promises to be even more full and exciting before I compete as Mr. GNI Leather at International Mister Leather in Chicago in May.

I'm very proud to be representing GNI and continuing to spread the word about our organization. 

This platform has also given me the opportunity to advance my work as a mental health professional and LGBT advocate. As a Board member of the California Division of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, I was a part of the team that contributed to crafting the legislation to outlaw conversion therapy in the state of California. We were the first state to do so. 

Few practices hurt LGBT youth more than attempts to change their sexual orientation or gender identity through so-called conversion therapy, which can cause depression, substance abuse, and even suicide.

Some mental health providers continue to subject young LGBT people to these practices—also known as “reparative therapy,” “ex-gay therapy,” or “sexual orientation change efforts”—even though they have been condemned by every major medical and mental health organization in the country.

The National Center for Lesbian Rights has created the #BornPerfect campaign to end conversion therapy in all 50 states in the next 5 years. NCLR has been working to protect LGBT youth from these practices for more than 20 years, securing legislation protecting youth from these dangerous practices in California in 2012, New Jersey in 2013, Washington, D.C. in 2014, Oregon and Illinois in 2015, and Vermont in 2016. I believe that every LGBT child is born perfect and that any young person’s identity as lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender should be honored, celebrated, and supported. 

Please support my efforts by clicking on the link below to donate and let every child know what we know, that they are #BornPerfect.


Sunday, December 4, 2016

GNI Board Offers Thoughts on the 2016 Gathering Survey

By GNI Board

It came in at 72 pages, but the compilation of Member Feedback following the 2016 Gathering made for some fun reading. When added to the hour-plus of comments at the Gathering Feedback Session, the Board has some great ideas on how to improve your event.

The greater challenge than reading all of them is to learn to read the intent behind the suggestions. There might be a "best food ever" right next to a "worst food ever." This tells us that our direction may be good but that the execution sometimes fails. Mentioning a specific dish helps us (am I the ONLY one who loves the Tuna Casserole? Must be the Minnesota boy in me.) We talked about having a pig roast again but it is still prohibitively expensive. And, we would like to be more ecologically sound with plate ware but some things are out of our control.

"So, cut out X or Y" to pay for a pig roast, you might say (and some do.)  But as we approach and build a new and better Marketing plan, we have to find what draws new members to the event. Evening entertainment, for example, is just one of those draws. But know that we keep that to a small percentage of the total Gathering budget.

Some have wondered why the first days of the Gathering now offer so many activities. This also fits with our desire to draw men in for an inexpensive weekend, and then once they see how amazing everything is, they stay more days or sign up next year for a week or more.

Since we have only one event per year (at this point, at least,) it sometimes takes us a couple of seasons to "get it right."  For waste and cost reasons, we've switched to cans of beer, but it still takes a bit of trial and error to figure out exactly what you like to drink. We've increased the percentage of diet soda every year (and it's STILL not high enough!) Feedback shows us that many guys still don't know about the many water coolers across Camp.

So, this is all to say that your GNI Board of Directors reads every single one of your comments and discusses a great many many of the ideas. We positively thrive on feedback throughout the year. Also know that we read it both in the context of other members' thoughts and how your idea might fit in with current plans. Let us know! You know the address! GNI@gaynaturists.org.

2016 Gathering Survey Results

The 2016 Gathering Survey Results are in

Each year after The Gathering ends, we invite participants who’ve attended The Gathering an opportunity to send us their feedback. We use these comments to see what people liked, what they didn’t like, what they might want to see changed, etc. While the survey can be conducted anonymously and most of the respondents do take advantage of having anonymity, the board values those that identify themselves and in cases that necessitate further communication, we are able to reach out to those individuals. Comments are, as you can imagine, all across the board. There is always a subset of a few people that dislike everything about the event and those on the other end of the spectrum that love everything. For those of us who parse through this feedback to pick out topics that we may be able to incorporate in future planning, we find this to be a daunting task knowing that we will never please everyone. But we do try our very best to spend your hard-earned dollars to make The Gathering a fun and fulfilling experience for everyone who attends.

Follow this to read the unedited compilation of the feedback of 144 members who took the time to reply to this survey. We thank those that participated. The board has read through these comments at our Fall / Winter board meeting held in Fort Lauderdale on October 21 – 22, 2016 and discussed some of them in detail. The feedback is divided into sections which comprises the first 70 pages. The last section of the shows the “Individual Responses” of everyone who answered the survey in full. Take a look and see the comments for yourself and you’ll begin to understand the challenges we face when planning this event.